Tips for a Stress-Free Wedding Day

Let’s be real—wedding planning can be A LOT. You’ve spent months (maybe years!) making sure every little detail is perfect. When the big day finally arrives, the last thing you want is stress. You should be sipping champagne, soaking in the joy, and dancing the night away—not dealing with last-minute surprises.

So, let’s talk about my tips for a stress from wedding day! Wait till you get to #5…I bet it’s one you have NEVER thought about!

1. Break in Those Wedding Shoes

Ladies (and gents), do yourself a huge favor—wear your wedding shoes before the big day! I’ve seen too many brides suffering through photos because their feet were screaming 15 minutes in. You don’t want to be that person.

Wear your shoes around the house, to your rehearsal dinner, or even on a date night. Let your feet get used to them! And here’s a pro tip: bring a comfy backup pair (think cute sneakers or sandals) for dancing. Your feet will thank you!

2. Schedule Hair & Makeup Trials (Trust Me on This!)

You might already be planning a hair trial, but don’t skip the makeup trial! It’s one of the best ways to avoid wedding day panic. The last thing you want is to look in the mirror and wish you had spoken up about that extra-bold eyeliner or a hairstyle that doesn’t quite feel like you.

Make it fun! Bring your bestie, mom, or sister along, and make a day of it. Bonus tip: Schedule your trial before a special event—like your bachelorette party or bridal shower—so you can actually show off the look! Two birds, one glam session.

3. Test Out Your Dress with All Your Undergarments (Yes, All of Them!)

I know, I know—TMI. But hear me out. You’d be surprised how different your wedding dress can look with the wrong bra, shapewear, or panties. Some dresses have enough layers to hide everything, while others (especially lighter, more fitted styles) can show every little line.

I once worked with a bride who realized on her wedding day that her breast tape lines were totally visible through her dress. Not ideal! She ended up making a last-minute change, but you don’t want that stress. Do a full try-on session beforehand to make sure everything looks seamless.

4. Decide Now Who’s Helping You Get Dressed

Getting into your dress is a moment, and not everyone in your bridal party needs to be hands-on. Pick one or two people—your mom, maid of honor, or a close friend—and let them know in advance. This saves time and prevents that awkward shuffle when 10 people try to zip you up at once.

And for those not on “dress duty”? They can help with jewelry, shoes, or even just keep the champagne flowing!

5. Sit on the Toilet Backwards in Your Wedding Dress (Yep, Really!)

Okay, this one might sound weird, but trust me—it’s a lifesaver. Instead of needing someone to hold up layers of dress while you awkwardly hover in a bathroom stall, just turn around and sit facing the tank. It keeps your dress out of the way and lets you handle business solo.

It might feel a little strange at first, but it works. Plus, you’ll get a good laugh out of it!

At the end of the day, remember this: nothing is perfect, and that’s totally okay. If something small goes wrong, don’t sweat it—sometimes, those little mishaps turn into the best stories. Your wedding is about celebrating love, laughter, and making memories. So take a deep breath, enjoy every moment, and dance your heart out! I hope these tips for a stress free wedding day was helpful!